Men.  While a lot of men have realized that looking good and being fashionable really does pay off in getting the ladies to notice them, or being more confident, there are some who are still in the dark ages when it comes to fashion.  So let us try to educate them by doing what they like to do most: pointing out the mistakes.

Here are the top 4 male fashion mistakes that we really do not want to see anymore.

1. Sandals with socks.  While socks are hygienic and should be worn when showing up at the office or lifting weights at the gym, it is simply a no-no when it comes to wearing it with sandals.

Sandals with socks? EWWW!

This summer, and ever after, please do not wear socks when you’re wearing sandals.  It just does not make sense!  This also goes for other summer footwear such as drivers shoes and boat shoes.

Take this tip to heart as you are expected to wear only sandals outside the house, leaving the flip flops to more informal functions like a back yard barbecue.

2. Cargo shorts are soooo 90s.  Who would want to see you wear this:

Cargo shorts from the past!

Definitely nobody.  Cargo shorts came in vogue in the 1990s, and when the new millennium started, we hoped that they became a thing of the past.  For a truly fashionable time, look for shorts that has slim cuts, with hems that end an inch or so above your knees.  If you need storage space to store knick-knacks bring a bag.

3. Tank tops.  Wearing tank tops outside sure is hot for girls.  But for guys? Take a look at this and decide for yourself!

Tank tops worn outside

Men, tank tops are meant to be worn as an undershirt.  Under the shirt.  So do keep tank tops out of sight.

4. Jewelry are for sissies.  A lot of men do not shop for male jewelry thinking that it is simply not for them.  Are you kidding?  These uber-macho jewelry should make you think twice!

This summer, it’s all about versatility.  You should be able to wear the most comfortable clothes you have, be it a summer dress or a tank top, or a maxi dress or a simple white tee shirt.  You really do not have to think about anything else but comfort.

But being a lady means that you should also look hot without feeling hot under the sun.  So here are more accessories that are just perfect for any summer get up!

1. Silver Millacreli Multicolored Millefiori Cross Pendant

Silver Millacreli Multicolored Millefiori Cross Pendant

If you still have not noticed it, summer gives rise to color.  This season, colorful prints became the rage from the catwalks of the world’s most fashionable cities to the streets.  So, accessories should be the same way: it should have vibrant burst of colors!

And you can have that with this multi-colored millefiori cross pendant.  From great greens, to bright yellows to alluring reds, this pendant could easily match your multi-colored sundress!

2. Pearl White Millefiori Glass 92.5% Silver Cuff Bangle

Pearl White Millefiori Glass 92.5% Silver Cuff Bangle

Summer nights are perfect for a hot date or a relaxing time with friends.  Whether you are going out wearing a simple little black dress, or a more in-style maxi dress, you should have the pearl white millefiori glass silver cuff bangle on your wrists!  This bangle features a rope design and combines sterling silver, Italian Murano art glass and a pearl white accent to bring you an elegant and flexible bracelet.

3. Sterling Silver Murano Millefiori Pink Oval Earrings

Sterling Silver Murano Millefiori Pink Oval Earrings

Celebrate your femininity with these sterling silver murano millefiori pink oval earrings.  This dazzling pair of dangling earrings would make your face brighter as you step out into the sun, or under the stars this summer!  An elegant pair of earrings could set off romantic sparks during hot summer nights!

Summer is here and you just want to be comfy under all this heat!  Do not sweat it you can wear practically everything you want, from sundresses to skimpy shorts, from summer boots to flip flops, from maxi dresses to a simple tee.  Just keep in touch with summer with these totally fab summer accessories!

1. Vibrant Millefiori Butterfly Pendant

Bright Yellow to Capture the Sun!

A really summery pendant that is both very attractive and very fun!  The wings on this millefiori butterfly are handcrafted with yellow and red millefiori glass, enlivening mother-of-pearl accents.  Encased in 92.5% silver, this makes a whimsical yet elegant pendant perfect for summer!

2. 92.5% Sterling Silver Designo Yellow/Caramel Round Ring

Going Geometric!

Prints are all the rage this summer, and it can be easy to get lost and tacky with all the prints going on.  So at least for your accessories, try to maintain balance and order with this designo yellow and caramel round ring.  It goes well with just about anything and adds a sense of order to your get up!

3. 92.5% Sterling Silver Flower Anklet

Silver Flower Anklet

If you are going to bare your feet these summer by donning on those oh-so-comfy flip flops then make sure to have pretty feet made prettier by this sterling silver flower anklet.  This is the perfect summer accessory for beautiful feet.

4. Silver Murano Millefiori Glass Dangling Flower Earrings

Silver Murano Millefiori Glass Dangling Flower Earrings

Summer really is not the time to let your hair down.  Why risk having your sticky and sweaty mane on your face or stick to you nape?  Plus, with these dangling flower earrings, you surely would not want your hair to hide your ears!  This dazzling pair of earrings adds a beautifully feminine touch to your summer get up!

Summer is all about wearing the things you want to help you survive the heat.  But that does not mean that you can go out of the house looking like you have just gotten out of bed.  With these accessories, you can “summerize” any outfit and look good at the same time!

Some ladies may balk that it is still too early for boots, but not this year.  Summer booties have stepped up and became every fashionista’s favorite footwear!

It may be hot and sunny, but when you want to look sexy on the streets, leave the sandals at home!  Short denim shorts, comfy t-shirt, sunglasses?  Complete the look with a pair of summer boots that goes right up to your ankles!

Admittedly, it is not a comfortable shoe to be in, so in as little as half an hour under the sun, you’d probably wish for your flip flops and hoped you did not leave them home.

But do not worry, there are the open-toe booties that Rachel Bilson was seen in recently:

Better right?  You’d love it more if you learned that open toed summer booties come in a lot of styles.  TotallyMyStyle.com’s top three are:

Wedge Booties with Studs

Peep Toe Canvas Boots

Peep Toe Leather Boots

These lovely boots are much more comfortable and would go with just about anything from sundresses, to night gowns, to tees!  Also, if you noticed, we picked really low cuts.  These are not necessarily sandals, but they are not last season’s cowboy boots either.  In effect, summer boots mix style and comfort.

Also, because it is summer, do stay away from black and other heavy colors.  Summer fashion is all about color and prints, pairing this with black just does not make sense!

Further, do accessorize.  First, if you are going to wear a pair of ankle length summer boots, you might want to put on anklets.  But thin anklets will not do it, wear something wider and more noticeable.

Also, bangles would go well with summer boots.  With the big and clunky look of summer boots, bangles would just be perfect!

Polished Hinged Sterling Silver Bangle with Green Amber

Sterling Silver Pearl White Designo Resin Cuff Bangle

Lastly, if you are going to wear leather boots, you can certainly top it all off with leather accents!

Who says that gadgets, technology and women don’t mix?  Here are three lovely mobile phones aimed at women!

1. Alcatel OT-808

The uniquely designed mobile phone features a rare square shape and is obviously designed for women.  It comes in dark chrome and chrome pink, and looks suspiciously like a make up compact.  But the fun does not stop there, the QWERTY keyboard makes it easier for you to send out SMS messages and get in touch with friends on your social networking accounts, or chat with them using instant messengers like Yahoo Messenger and MSN Live.

It’s hard not to look at this handset and not think of Reese Witherspoon on “Legally Blonde”.  So pop out a sundress and shades, stilettos or gladiator sandals, all pink of course.  Have this nifty phone on one hand and your pet poodle on the other.

Accessories?  How about these:

Gold Cultured Pearl and Crystal Necklace

2.  Samsung Diva S5150

Samsung decided to turn on the feminine allure for its Diva series that is aimed particularly at women.  The Diva S5150 is really what you might call a “bling-bling” phone with its silver embossed cover.  The hidden screen display important notifications.  It comes with Internet connectivity, a 3.15 megapixel camera and some security features that could help you get out of a sticky situation.

Overstated and flashy, but utterly feminine, this mobile phone is great for a night out.  Dance floor divas can literally use this phone for added dazzle factor!  Just get into your usual Saturday night get up and brandish this phone!

Accessories can include:

White Gold Open Heart Diamond Pendant Necklace

Sterling silver 5-strand bracelet with silver hearts

3. Nokia C3

Social network integration seems to be a focus for a lot of women nowadays.  It keeps them updated on their friends, while providing a way to keep up with the latest gossip, fashion tip and trends.  The Nokia C3 in hot pink allows them to easily access and update their Facebook and Twitter accounts while adding some plus points to their hip factor.

Of the three phones, the C3 is the most suited for business.  You can take it to the board room and leave it on the conference table for some colorful distraction as you deliver your department’s goals for the next quarter.

Accessorize with:

Silver Necklace with Pink Crystal and Glass Beads

With True Blood making a huge comeback on HBO and the new Twilight saga movie coming out soon, vampire chic is making a comeback and it is going to be very big!  But there is a problem: it seems that to look the part of a vampire, you have to be overly daring and weird in what you wear.

TotallyMyStyle.com says that it is not so!  You can still look like your favorite vampire without being too weird!  Here is how:

1. Lighten your skin only two shades lighter than your normal skin tone. Use foundation and concealers that are two shade lighter than your skin tone. More than this, and you would look over powdered and very fake.

2. Visit your dentist and get your teeth whitened. If you have not noticed, all vampires have a great set of pearly whites!

3. Forget leather. While leather has been widely regarded as the vampire’s material of choice, you need to forego it.  Today’s vampires go for softer, more feminine and sexier materials like lace, silk and even (GASP!) cotton.  check out these threads for some inspiration:

No more leather!

4. Bite ‘em with colors. Understated and dull colors make a sure statement, go for flesh, old rose or gray.  But classic goth favorites black and red surely comes to mind when you go for a vampiric look.

Classic black and red

5. Make up. With the help of foundation brushes and kabuki brushes, make sure that you make your eyes appear wider by putting on black make up around your eyes.  And any blood drinking vampire would have sultry red and full lips!

Classic Goth Make Up

Too gothic for you?  You can add a splash of color and still look the part of a nocturnal predator!

Color Goth Make Up

6. Accessories. Accessories complete any look, and these accessories will surely complement your vampire look!

Sterling Silver Black Rectangle Cubic Zirconia Pendant

Gothic Cross Pendant

Stainless Steel Knot Dangle Post Earrings

Stainless Steel and Alligator Patterned Bangle

Stainless Steel Antiqued Gothic Necklace

One of the emerging trends now that summer is getting closer is the sublimation dress, a lightweight sundress that has undergone dye sublimation.

Dye sublimation is a printing technique that has been used on a lot of things like coffee mugs, tiles and yes, fabric.  Unlike tie dyeing, dye sublimation leaves very bright and very vibrant colors on the textile.  Not only that, the process can create photorealistic graphics and images on the fabric.

The new summer trend, however, is similar to tie dyeing.  The fabric is creased in different ways so that each dress comes out unique.  The creases create gaps among the colors so that no two dresses are the same.

It is like wearing an abstract art, only more comfortable and perfect for summer.  Sublimation dresses and tops are available at major retailers and on Amazon.com.

So how do you pull it off?  Remember that summer is all about fighting the heat and being comfortable.

For this dress, you can experiment with flip flops or gladiator sandals, which should look good with an anklet made out of wood or corals.  And this:

There are also sublimation maxi dresses like this one:

These maxi dresses are great because they can flatter your curves, highlighting your womanly charms.  Pregnant women can aslo be sassy in these.

Accessorize with these:

Grey sterling silver cuff bangle with floral design

For a more flexible sublimation dress that you can don day or night, go for a tunic dress like this one:

Go ahead and bring out your gladiator sandals for a quick lunch with your BFF, but don’t forget these:

Silver brown millacreli murano glass heart pendant

You can also pair this tunic dress with a more formal pair of shoes, then wear your gold jewelry or pearls for a great night out with friends or that special someone.

Lady Gaga might not be the first person you think of when you are trying to update your style, but she should be.  The fearless music icon has been wowing people with her offbeat fashion sense that mostly aims to shock or elicit reactions.

Music and Fashion Icon

But think about it.  Lady Gaga exaggerates her fashion because she is an icon.  And she tries to make people feel that even misfits should have fun.  By donning outrageous clothes and accessories, she sends out the message that it is okay if you do not conform, in fact, it is more admirable if you seek out your own style.

And so, if you want to have Lady Gaga as your style inspiration, be ready to raise some eyebrows, but most specially, be ready to have tremendous fun!

1. Experiment.  Lady Gaga shocks people because she likes to experiment.  From skimpy attires to full blown asymmetrical  gowns, she puts out a design coup by pairing off leather tops and offbeat skirts.

Experiment!

2. Get that attitude.  Lady Gaga just won’t give second thoughts to what other people would think.  And it is that attitude that gives her fashion statements the credibility it needs to fly.

The Gaga Attitude

3. Sunglasses. Lady Gaga often dons big sunglasses.  In fact in the world of Lady Gaga sunglasses should be BIG… the bigger the better!

Shades of Gaga

4. Accessories.  Lady Gaga is not afraid to accessorize either.  And her accessories are as varied as the clothes that she puts out.  Gaga-esque accessories range from gothic, offbeat, vintage, weird and surprise, elegant.

Possible Lady Gaga accessories include:

Sterling Silver Crown Charm Pendant

Hair bows are big, literally and figuratively, this spring,

With such fashion heavyweights as Marc Jacobs, Diane von  Furstenberg and Temperley all sending out their spring collections with bows, bows and bows with them, it is difficult to ignore this spring fashion trend.

Glee also had a Madonna tribute episode where her signature bowed head gets a renaissance:

Bows are great accents that adds color to your spring get up and helps you make a fashion statement.  But do not lull yourself into thinking that it’s all about getting a piece of fabric and draping it over your pretty little head.  The truth is, there are a lot of things that could go wrong when you try bows.

For one, you might become the fashion victim.  A Madonna stuck in the 1980s that looks cheap in a cheap bow.  Bows should be made of high quality material like silk, knits or leather.  That means that you should not go for bows that are tacky, childish and mass produced and can be bought by the dozens right off the shelf.

To wear a bow, get one and tie it around your head — all the way around.  You could also go for bows that works as bunny ears, another spring fashion trend.  Remember that wearing a bows takes a lot of sophistication and attitude.  If you cannot project an air of confidence while wearing one, you will never pull it off.

Now that you have an idea of how to wear bows, it is time to learn it to accessorize for them.

The Ears

Big bows cover much of your head, so avoid wearing dangling or oversized earrings with them. Not only will you risk the chance of your bow and your earrings clashing, you also would have too much going on at the top of your head.

It is best not to wear earrings or wear muted and small ones.  If you are going to wear earrings look for smaller pairs that are neutral or classic.  This would help lend an air of sophistication to your look and can save you by being less tacky.

Modern Value Silver Ferroni Round Spiral Earrings

You can compensate, however, with necklaces, bangles and rings.

A long necklace with a cool pendant would suffice.  But just because it’s spring, try layering necklaces for a more dramatic effect.

Wire Dyed Cultured Black Pearl Necklace

And lastly, go overboard with the bangles, bracelets and rings!

It’s spring and it’s time for a new look.  Spring fashion calls for bright colors and sundresses, sandals and accessories.  Here is how to start spring right with a few closet spring cleaning tips.

1. Clean out your closet. When you start to clean up your closet, take everything out of it.  Remember that you should only keep clothes in your closet.  If you are lucky, you can put your shoes, belts and other stuff in it along with the clothes.  You should find new storage spaces for other things that might have accumulated inside your closet.

2. Decide on what you want to keep. As a general rule, throw out or sell anything that you have not worn in years.  There is no sense in having them eat up valuable storage space in your closet.  For those classics such as the skinny jeans, a white tee-shirt and denim pants, keep them in a separate box where you could get to them if they are in style again.

3.  Organize what’s left of your clothes. You can organize your clothes by color, dark to light from one end of your closet to the other.  Sort out pants, shirts, dresses and skirts.  This helps you mix and match your clothing for a fresh look every single time.

4. Work with a budget. Now that you know that you have taken stock in knowing what you have in your closet, it’s time to find what you’re missing.  2010 is the year of military colors, patterns and textures, and red white and blue stripes.  If you don’t have these, then go get yourself one of each.

Military Chic is big this spring!

And so are prints!

5. Accessorize to your heart’s content. Having the right accessories can make even old clothes look fabulous.  Say you have an absolute favorite white tee that you’d like to wear this spring, but it’s certainly out of style.  Update your wardrode with these spring accessories.

Sterling Silver Multi-Colored Millefiori Heart Bangle

Blue Millefiori Silver Flower Pendant

Silver Multi-Color Drop Murano Millefiori Ring

Sterling Silver White Designo Cross Flowers Pendant